People I am in love with this week include Adele and Jeremy Lin. I can't really claim to be unique. Everyone seems to be in love with Adele and Lin. But here's the thing: I don't fall in love easily, though the rest of the world seems to. This, for me, is momentous. Loving two celebrities at once is probably unprecedented, in my case.
I'm trying to think of the last time I loved a female vocalist. Maybe never. I suppose maybe Diana Krall and, back when I was in grad school when I first discovered Ella Fitzgerald (whom I still adore). There have been a few others. I certainly like a lot of them and can name a bunch, from pop to jazz. But love? Where I read about them on Wikipedia and can recount what I learn? And track down Youtube videos, and watch one of those videos ("Someone Like You," performed in Adele's home) more than once? Nah. I don't do ANYTHING more than once. Not even stuff I love, like hiking or canyoneering or mountain biking. I'm always looking for a new route. But I've watched "Someone Like You" three times. That's true love.
And Jeremy Lin. He may not endure; I'm not sure. I'm pretty sure Adele will last, both in popular culture and as someone I admire. Lin may be a flash in the pan. I'm not sure. He doesn't look like a passing fad, but it's tough to know. And the last NBA player I loved? Um, probably never. I don't think I would like to meet most of them. Gordon Hayward seems like a decent fellow. Among former Jazz players, Thurl Bailey, John Stockton and Jeff Hornacek would be fine dinner companions, I'm sure. Malone, on the other hand, doesn't seem my type. Chris Paul and Blake Griffin are certainly admirable and fun to watch, as are many others. But making me excited to watch or to feel happy for them? Nah. Only Lin.
So what do Adele and Lin have in common? Both seem immensely talented folks who have been true to self while battling some adversity. Adele was the daughter of a teenage mother who got noticed when songs for a class project were posted to myspace. Lin got turned down at the college level for scholarships and so went to Harvard, hardly the best way to launch a basketball career. They are the quiet, determined underdogs who succeed without ridiculous antics and without playing to stereotypes of female sexuality or male machismo. That's a sure way to my heart.